Okay, WormNAT was suggested to me, and I tried it. But every time it auto-confogures it hooks me up with port 1080. every time. The problem is when I do use that port and try to host it tells me that it screwed up and to auto-configure again. and i get port 1080 again.

What do you mean by "port 1080"? The auto-configuration is searching for a suitable proxy server, and the ports these servers are open on differ.

Please read the program's web page to gain an understanding of how WormNAT works, and specify more information - like what is the exact error message.